1. Don't spend a lot of money, show off money, give gifts
When the girl came out, the first question that many men thought was: What would the girl give her the first time?Most men think that as long as they buy gifts, they can make women happy and make them like themselves. Perhaps it was caused by watching too many love movies and dramas. The son of the son took out a bunch of flowers and captured the girl's heart.
The truth is, giving gifts to people, of course, the other party will be happy, but with "Is not attracted to you" is two different things. Just as there is a stupid person on the street who sends money to you, whoever is willing to accept it, who will be happy. Do you fall in love with that stupid person?
On the contrary, the first date, spending money for a girl, giving a gift, and even showing off the body will only make the other person feel that you lack confidence. You don't believe that you can attract girls by your own conditions. Instead, you need to use a lot of external things to make up for your shortcomings. Just like this guy, what do you think of being a girl?
2. Body touch
The reason why many men accept the "good guy card" is too "good guys." When I was a child, I listened to the teachings of my parents and teachers. "The men and women don't teach each other." In the future, the pursuit of the opposite sex will only show the appearance of a modest gentleman. For fear of overstepping friends, the other party will mistake the other person for a pervert.The truth is that girls' feelings are affected by the intimacy of physical touch. Just as you meet close friends, it’s natural to hug and lick your head. By the same token, if you can physically touch the other person, the girl will naturally rationalize the reverse and you have developed very close to her.
Of course, you can't start a big bird bite at first, only scare girls. What you have to learn is how to make the other person accept your touch unconsciously; knowing how to cook the frog warmly, it is the key to accepting the subconscious.
3. Conversion venue
To make a woman fall in love with you, in addition to attracting her, she must also have the feeling of being familiar with you and understanding. If you do not feel familiar with the other party, then the trade rashly asks the other party for excessive demands and will only be rejected by the girl. The general method is to use more than a dozen appointments and to make the girls mature for several months. I hope that the woman will one day be willing to take a drag with you.The so-called "hot and hot", if prolonged for three months, the enthusiasm will also decrease with time, and the spark will disappear. At that time, you will only walk into the "friendship zone" and exchange for a girl. "Your condition is good, but I don't feel anything about you."
The best thing to do is to turn the appointment several times, causing the time brain to create a time distortion and create the illusion of "knowing for a long time." Girls only leave a picture of memories in every place. If you are in a French restaurant for three hours on a date, the girl will only remember the picture of the French meal afterward. However, if you are dating once, go to the restaurant with the girls, go shopping, and then eat desserts. After the date, girls will leave at least three different places. In the memory of girls, this is equivalent to dating three times.
The more memories, the more the other side feels close to you, the more girls will fall in love with you.
4. Prepare both hands
The success of a date, of course, is the arrangement of the dating process.Many people told me that I chose a Thai restaurant and bought a movie ticket; but in the end, the girl I was about said that I didn't want to eat spicy food. As a result, the restaurant and food he chose were soaked. There are also some stupid boys who say that they plan to go to a certain shop, girls don't want to, but he insists on pulling girls. The girls are of course black. I asked the boy why he did this. He said. "Because I thought about the topic of the shop in the morning, I made a good speech. If I don't go, I will have no topic."
A planned appointment is better than no plan. Just, what you need is a flexible plan, that is, you have to prepare both.
I just said that it is a dating restaurant. You have to budget the following situations: 1. There are too many people in the restaurant, you have to line up the Indian team; 2. The problem of drinking water, or the reason that the restaurant cannot be opened; 3. The girl is sick, or that I have eaten too much food of the same kind and I am not interested in what you have prepared. Therefore, I will first understand what kind of restaurants of the same kind or different types are in the vicinity of the date of the date. It seems that you are expecting the other person to have sushi. In the end, the queue will not be able to eat for too long, and the other party will be very lost. As long as there is a restaurant in the same room, the other party will not have much difference.
The reason for different types of restaurants is simpler. If you originally asked a girl to go to a Korean barbecue, and finally the girl is afraid of not eating hot, you have to go to other restaurants. Remember, the need for thoughtful girls is a necessary condition for dating.
Also, if it is the rainy season, you have to be prepared for the rain. Bring an umbrella, otherwise, it will be disappointing when you are dating. There is an umbrella, a romantic walk in the rain; no umbrella, it is awkward.
5. Pack yourself in the conversation
Many people think that the definition of dating is to eat, watch a movie, give a lot of attention to each other, send the other party to the car, and it is a qualified performance. These ideas can be said to be a big mistake.The purpose of the date is not a sloppy activity. The first date is the same as the job interview, the purpose is to make a good impression! The most basic is to let the other party have the urge to see you next time, and I will not forget you after the date.
Just think about it, just do what everyone else will do, will you give extra points?
The focus of the appointment is not the location, not the food; the focus is on using other items to give you extra points. I call it "indirect packaging." If you go to a fine dining restaurant, even if the food environment is good, she will leave the impression that "this dinner is very good!" If you like food tasters, introduce the characteristics of food, cooking and eating, the situation is very different; you not only package food, restaurant but also indirectly package yourself.
Remember, what you have to do is to blame anything on you, reminding the other person of the food and thinking of you, even with another boy, she will think, "This boy is very stuffy, it is much better to date King. "If you let the other person taste the fine wine, the other party will never drink cheap red wine.
Remember, the most important thing about a date is the space for dialogue. Your words are the main point of packaging your image. So don't go to movies, dramas, concerts on the first date, because even if it's fun, the focus is on others. If the first date can't be impressed, then the topic of the phone call is very limited; the more topics that have a nutrient, the easier it is to develop.
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